Friday, April 10, 2009
Run Dog Run
We saw Marley and Me the other night, and were surprised at how good it was. We can certainly relate to a lot of the things in the movie. In particular the point where she's screaming to get rid of the dog while trying to take care of the kids. Lilo is no where near as bad as Marley was, she has a lot more discipline, but still understand the frustration. Couldn't believe how bad Kathleen Turner looked in the movie. That was Jessica Rabbit.
Good Friday
Sunday, we're having the rest of the family over to celebrate Easter. We're expecting a visit from the Easter Bunny, who has said he'll be here around 1 to deliver eggs and play with the kids. We're all excited to see him.
We're about to dye Easter eggs today, should be fun. Nate's never done it before. I know he wants to, but doesn't know what it is he's really asking for. He's been spending a lot more time drawing and coloring lately, so this should be right up his alley. We're going to Mikuni's for dinner tonight, can't eat meat because it's good Friday, so sushi here we come.
Yesterday we took Nate to the mall to see the Easter Bunny and get his photo taken. He didn't want to go, and we had a hard time getting him to give us a good smile. The smirk we caught was the best we could do, but it sure looks like he knows something we don't.

Sunday, April 5, 2009
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Rocket Ships
Playing catch and launching rockets
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Aggie's Birthday





Nate and Claudia hanging out, having fun!
Nate's Green Thumb

Had a busy weekend. Took Friday off to get some stuff done at the courthouse, then went over to the house in Orinda to change the locks and talk to some property managers. While on the way, Sherry called and asked for a few more days to get stuff out of the house. So, the 3 weeks I've given her to get what she really wanted has turned into 6 weeks and she's taken everything that wasn't nailed down. Well, at least there's less to deal with now. We'll head down again next weekend, replace the light fixtures she took, change the locks and hopefully meet with another property manager or two. We'll also need to do some final cleanup, as there are some piles of stuff she left, that's really not worth anything. Figure it will take 2-3 weekends to get it all cleaned out and ready for market. With Easter coming up, in may make things even more delayed, we'll have to see.


On Saturday, we did some errands in the morning. Went and bought all the light fixtures for the house and also got some gardening stuff from the hardware store? Spent the morning running around shopping, with the plan to catch the 2pm showing of Monster's Vs Alien's. It was the 3D showing, so we got there early, with Nate and enjoyed all the previews and ads. The movie was good, the 3D effects were great. Nate got bored about 1/2 way through. Kept wanting to go home. He was having a hard time because he didn't want to wear the 3D glasses. He said it made the picture too dark. Without them, the blurry part would get to me, and I think it got to him too. Afterwards we went to the Nugget and got some cheese, sausages, bacon wrapped scallops and various other items before heading home to hang out in our backyard snacking on the delicious food we grabbed.


Monday, March 30, 2009
Family time
We visit Aggie's for her birthday. We had a nice tame, a good BBQ and food. A lot of my coworkers were there, so lot's of different things to chat about. Nate played with Claudia, something the two of them still love to do. It's fun to see them interact.
I need to download some pictures of the pary, should have a few posted here in the next few days.
In the meantime, here's a few more videos of Nate Skiing at Soda Springs.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Last Night...

So I don't expect Nate to have a great grasp on time. I've gotten used to explaining to him that 2 day's from now, is a matter of two sun ups, and two sun downs. He seems to grasp this concept that as the sun goes down, he goes to bed, and it's something to help him manage the passing of time. Now when you ask Nate about something he did in the past, he always expresses it as something he did "last Night" As in, last night, he was in Chile with Salvador. Or Last night G-pa came to visit. Or last night he went to Aggie's. Well technically he went to Aggie's yesterday afternoon and was home by night, but probably the most accurate of all his descriptions. I'm not sure if it was Maria and I noticing, but he has stopped his saying "actually" in front of his answers. I guess that cuteness will be replaced by another.

Today, we went to Soda Springs again. It's a great way to spend the day with Nate. He loves playing in the snow, we had a good time. He skied again, but was a bit more hesitant today. Last time we went, we ended the day after he crashed twice. First into someone else and got a big owie and then he just fell in the snow. It didn't stop him, but this time he wanted me to go down the mountain with him, rather than like last time when he wanted to go alone. Made for a much longer day for me, running up and down the mountain. We had a great time, picked up sandwiches again, hot chocolate and enjoyed a little picnic in the snow. Only real issue was that we knew he wouldn't last too long, so we delayed in the morning and didn't get there till ~ noon. By then the place was pretty busy, where last time, we were there as they opened and had more space to ourselves. It might also have been the weather, it was a great day, although a bit breezier than before. I've got our camera fixed, so i'll try and get some of the videos posted here as well as the photos.

Coming home, Nate fell asleep, so we brought him to bed, where he continued to nap for about an hour or so. Then it was off to the spa, shower and we went and grabbed some mexican food for dinner. Nate ate all the beans, but din't touch the rice. Maria got the burrito with HOT salsa, which we love, but this time it was a little too hot. Hard to really enjoy it.

On the way there, we saw a ferris wheel lit up. Nate said he liked it. He told me it was the thing that went round and round, lit up and went night night. We'll have to check it out and see what's going on if we have time tomorrow. I'm getting up early to play some golf with John, but then we've decided to head down and see Lorraine's house. Sherry's has been busy cleaning it out, and I want to see what's left for us to do. Next Fri/Sat we intend to do some more cleanup as we get it ready to rent. If all goes well, we'd have it ready for rental by April 1, but more likely by Tax day.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Heavenly
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After skiing all day Sat, we came back, showered and went to dinner at the Sage room in Harvey's. Great food and we had a great time. Afterwards we gambled for about 30 minutes before being too tired and so we went back and caught some shuteye. Lost an hour with daylight savings, got up Sun morn, ate breakfast and headed home. Fun, busy weekend.
Happy Birthday my Angel!!!!
Friday, March 6, 2009
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Nate Tries Skiing


We arrived around 10am, got his ticket and made the trek over to the snow park. He got his little ski's and snow boots, no poles and we headed over to see what his first day of skiing was going to be like.

Afterwords a few more ski runs before we went over to do the tubing. At the tubing place, Nate saw a snowman, so we built our first snow man, but he destroyed it before we could get too many pictures.


I took him out back to play catch with Lilo and decided to turn on the spa for us to relax in. While playing catch, Nate kept going to check the front yard to see if our neighbors, and his new posse were playing out front. Sure enough, Jake, Logan, Jimmy and Emily gathered for their afternoon biking session. Nate wanted to join in, so we went out front and played for 1bout an hour and a half. When the other kids went inside for dinner, I grabbed Nate, we went home and put on our swim trunks and hooped into the spa. We through the ball to Lilo, so she went swimming in the cold pool, while we hung out in the spa. Everyone ran inside, we took a shower, ate dinner and I read him stories while he quickly fell asleep. I have to believe there was not much else we could have crammed into what must have been an almost perfect day for Nate. All the things he loved, he was able to do in a single day.
Tomorrow Nate is going to Nene's house and is going to spend the day with Claudia. It'll be good for the kids to hang out together. Maria is thinking of trying to arrange a more frequent rotation with them so we can give each other more time and give the kids regular play sessions. Maria's even thinking she might volunteer to take Claudia some days to give Nate someone else to interact with, hoping to make it easier on her.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Actually No!
My dad came to visit on Tuesday. Wanted to upgrade the hard drive in his PC. We changed his 40GB drive for a 1.5TB drive and got everything copied over. It went surprisingly well, which seems to be unusual when dealing with PC upgrades. G-pa, Maria and Nate went to Costco and got some shopping done, while I was working and then we had a nice BBQ before we called it a day.
Sherry called me 8 times yesterday, left 8 voice mail messages, each 4 min in length, before the machine runs out of room. In those messages, the basic theme was that IO was taking things from her mom's house that she wanted or felt was hers. The two main things she thought I took were a down comforter and some dishes, neither of which I did, nor do I know anything about them. It's been difficult dealing with her. She called again today and left a more nasty message which prompted me to call her and try and set the record straight. While she claims she wasn't accusing, but merely asking, I don't know that a rational person would agree after listening to the messages. I did tell her that we were looking at making the house available to rent and that we needed to empty everything out of it. I gave her until March 15th to remove any and all things she wants from the house and I will then clean it up after that. I guess the good news is that there may be less work for me to do.
It was clear on the call that Sherry is having a difficult time dealing with her mom dying. I know she was in tears when all was said in done, but she wants to blame me for the fact that life is hard, people get old and die. I know she struggles, wanting to place blame or fault or have someone or something to go after, but it annoys me that she has to pin it all on me. At least she was understanding and supportive of getting the house ready to rent, despite her feeling bad that she had to deal with any of this while Lorraine was alive.
On to happier news, I guess that means I won't have to work on the house for the next few weekends, so we're planning on taking Nate up to the snow on Sat. Would like to try and get him up on ski's. We're thinking of going to a small resort like Soda Springs, so he can get a lesson and we can see how he does. The following weekend is Maria's birthday and the Cottles are coming and we're planning on spending the weekend in Tahoe, with some skiing, gambling and dining. Should be fun.
I'm now on a conf call with the JOEM's, HP customers in Japan, as I have been all week, and can't wait for this set of meetings to end. Makes for very long days. Nate's out front riding his bike with Jake and Logan, while Maria is chatting with Jessica. Glad to see Nate get out and play with the neighbor kids. Funny it started with him and I in the back playing catch with Lilo, when he went to the gate and saw "others" out front and pulled me to go let him play with them. Kind of cute actually.
Have a good night,
Sunday, February 22, 2009
YOU make me sad!
Been trying week. With all of us sick, haven't been able to do much. Maria finally turned the corner on Tuesday and has been getting better. Nate still has the swollen lymph nodes, but otherwise is not acting sick at all. I've been struggling with a sore throat, fever and headache. Today is the first day I'm feeling better than the previous. Hopefully I've turned a corner as well. Haven't exercised in a week and feel like a slug.
We were hoping to get to Lorraine's for a visit, but with our sickness, I'm afraid to give any of it to her. Same goes for Tony, who fell and broke her ankle this week. Hasn't been a good week for all involved. Tony's fine, or at least as fine as you can be with a broken ankle. She was at her program when she fell and broke it. Hopefully we'll feel better and can get her to see her mom. I know that will cheer her up.
We did get some good news on the condo, looks like we have a renter who wants to sign a 1 year lease, so that will be a big help and load off of our mind. We really need to dedicate some time to Lorraine's house, hopefully we'll get over our sickness and start to really see some progress. I was hoping to have it ready to rent by end of March, we'll see how that goes.
Sat was a great day, weather wise. Nate has been dying to get outside, and we were able to take him out and play in the street with the neighbor kids. They have one of those electronic ride in cars/jeep things that go 2.5-5MPH A pretty good pace. Nate loves to run around in them, but he has a ways to go before he gets a license. He steers, but doesn't look where he's going. He rode his bike and scooter with the kids and the adults hung out and chatted. Nothing too exciting, but at least we were outside. It's raining this morning, so not much to do today. Trying to figure out how to keep everyone entertained.
Maria has now seen all the best picture Oscar nominee's, I've seen all of them but Milk. Just couldn't get into that. I'd rate them 1. Slumdog Millionaire. 2. Frost/Nixon. 3. Benjamin Button and 4. The Reader. I liked the india aspect of Slumdog, and I though the music was great too. Good story and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was surprised by Frost/Nixon, I knew the history, but certainly don't remember it. And I should say I knew the history of Nixon, never heard of the interview. It was a great story and I love the Nixon performance, amazing, easy to understand why he was nominated for best actor. Benjamin Button wasn't bad, a bit long, generally a feel good story like Forrest Gump, but didn't feel anything overwhelming about it. It was good, but nothing too special. The reader, was pretty boring to me. I thought the concept was good, but it really dragged on, not something I'd normally watch. Finally we watched The Wrestler last night. Mickey Rourke was nominated for best actor, I can see why. I've never been a fan of wrestling, so I wasn't excited to see it, but overall it held my interest. I'd say either he or Frank Langhella
Now, to entertain the boy for the day, any suggestions for a rainy day with him?
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Back to "Normal"
Sunday, Nate went to spend the day with Aggie, and we got about 6 hours together, before she called in a panic. Nate had a scratch on his neck and his glands were swollen. We wound up taking him to the Dr on Monday. Nothing serious, just a viral infection and his glands are working overtime. They ran a bunch of tests, required us to draw blood, which was a painful process to go through, not sure who it hurt the most. Got the results today and nothing out of the ordinary, just what the DR expected. However now Maria is sick too. So while they're back, they're not feeling good.
Maria and I did get to see Slumdog Millionaire. Maria got all caught up on Biggest Loser, Survivor, Saturday Night Live, Big Bang Theory and about half of the Bachelor's. Still need to catch up on Lost, Law & Order, Top Chef and Hells Kitchen. Such important stuff.
We reserved a hotel in Tahoe for Maria's birthday weekend. Mike and Lilia are coming up without the kids for an adult getaway weekend. Should be a lot of fun.
Back at work today, not much else new. Seems strange to actually be back in the office instead of working from home. It's going to take me awhile to get back into this routine.
Take care.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Almost There
Looking back now on what I accomplished versus what I thought I was going to do, I come to the same realizations I have every other day of my life, there just isn't enough time to get it all done. You find you make time for some things, hopefully, if you're doing it right, they're the things you value most. When I look at the last 4 weeks, I can say that my priorities have been working, golfing, my dog and my fitness. I fell short of my intentions in terms of seeing Lorraine, mostly because she was sick. The incident with Tony's seizure also changed some of my intentions there, however overall about what I expected. The house is still standing, in fact I even made a few repairs, mostly with paint and spackle. Got a tray made for Aggie's Xmas decorations. Did laundry and kept the mess to a minimum, luckily I haven't had to do much to clean here in the last few days. I didn't leave the house as much as I thought I might, wound up working from home alot. Recovered a PC crash from a bad hard drive and isolated the issue with Maria's laptop. I'm nearly ready for valentine's day, just need to figure out what to do for dinner. After all, they'll be too jet lagged to do anything too special. Didn't go skiing like I wanted, not sure if it was laziness or not wanting to do it alone, probably a bit of both, with a little lack of new snow thrown in. I did get my taxes done and have a strategy for the next steps with Lorraine's house, but the hard work is still to come there. Back yard is in a bit worse shape than I'd like, but didn't plan to have so many issues with the dog and she tore up the back yard quite a bit. All in all, I guess I'd grade my time a B. I could've done a little less HP work and had some more me time to accomplish a bit more, but like when Maria's here, I always struggle to minimize that piece. Got the major things done I wanted to accomplish and had some fun. Overall, glad it's coming to end and I can be back with my family and get back to the normal routine, which is anything but normal or routine.
I'd chat more about V-day plans, but if Maria reads this, I don't want to spoil anything. It's not much anyways, things are tight now, and it's a down economy. We'll save anything major for her birthday coming up. Looks like Mike and Lilia will be joining us for skiing in Tahoe. Looking to book a room at Harvey's for a night or two. That should be a fun getaway.
Time to hit the sack, and plan out the last few things to do before maria gets here. I know I need to catch up on laundry and file away Lorraine's '08 paperwork, but I keep thinking I'm missing something else. Maybe it'll come to me while I'm dreaming.
Good night!
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Lilo
Took Lilo to the dog park yesterday. She was super obsessive. I made her walk around the dog park before we went in. She was crying and whining, couldn't wait to play. When she did get in, all she wanted to do was fetch. Well, it was going well until another dog wanted to join in. They both grabbed the Frisbee and Lilo got upset and nipped at the other dog. Wound up biting the other dogs lip, drew some blood. I felt really bad. It was really the other dogs fault, but you never know how an owner will react. Following that, took her home and left her in the back yard while I went to RC Wiley to pick up Nate's portable DVD player, and Safeway for some milk. Then I came home, let her in and starting doing chores around the house. Of course, as she usually does after the dog park, she waited until she came in to puke in the office and in our bedroom, including up on the curtains. Spent the next 45 minutes cleaning the mess up.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Been Awhile
Speaking of them, the most recent update is that they are leaving the Island on Thursday and taking th ebus back, will arrive 7am local time. Staying with Nicole through the weekend, so far been prmised to have Internet, then back to Sabine's for the last few days before she heads home. Her mail from Yesterday, she tells of Carlos taking the SeaDoo out and spraying Salvador and Nate who were on the shore. It spooked Salvador, but Nate loved it and kept shouting again again. He seems to really like the SeaDoo. Something for us to think about getting, if there was any lakes around here with water in them to do those things. One other interesting note, I guess there was a bit of excitement when one of the tree's there caught on fire. Everyone ran to put it out and it was all taken care of before the fire dept got there, but it spooked the kids and made everyone a little nervous. Here's a photo of them on the beach, then I'll continue below.

I just finished a call with Aggie, she went to visit Lorraine today. She mentioned that she wasn't doing too well. I think this cold is really getting to her. I know Eskaton called and said they wanted to change her "memory" medicine, but no update from them on her cold. I'm going to go visit her tomorrow, hopefully she's feeling better. I know they put her on antibiotics this week. I've also started a more regular dialogue with the attorney about what we can do with her house and what the best scenario is. Hopefully we'll get some paperwork drawn up in the next two weeks.
I went to the bay area yesterday, played golf with my dad at Tilden Golf Course. As the guy who played with us joked, it shoul dhave been called tilting golf course. I don't think there was a level lie anywhere on the course. Ball was always above or below your feet. Overall a nice course. I played a bit better on the back than the front. Shot a 93, on a par 70 course. Had 2 birdies, and actually had an eagle shot on the par 5 on the back, I reached the back edge of the green in 2. Definatley interested in playing it again, but it will probably be a long time before I do. Afterwards, we drove over to Lorraine's house their in Orinda. I wanted to check in on the place and see how it's holding up. Also need to asses what we're going to need to do to get it ready either for sale or for rent. Either way we need to clean it out and that's going to be a lot of work. Then we headed over to Casper's for a hot dog and I made the long drive home.
Over the weekend, I played golf with Shawn and John out at Wildhorse in Davis on Sat. Another new course I hadn't played before. Nice, green's were very fast. Some interesting holes. I shot a 96, but that was with 6 penalty shots. Funny, but felt I played a lot worse than I actually scored. Sunday I went to Brad and Kim's to watch the SuperBowl. Good game, better than I thought it would be. Played a little poker afterwards, but there was only 5 of us, so it went quick. Felt a little odd being out without Maria. Not used to going out solo.
On Friday, I was at home when I got text message from Rich Ramos asking me what Taro's balls were. For those that don't know, Taro is the owner of Mikuni's Roseville, as well as several other Mikuni's. Anyway, they're actually called Japanese Bon Bon's, they're fish, I like Hamachi, wrapped around crab meat and shaped like balls. Anyway, I was bitter he was at Mikuni's without me, and so he invited me down. I headed down and met up with him and Ian. We had a beer and some sushi, before agreeing to head back to my place for some Scotch and cigars. I think Ian, who's Scotish, was a little jealous over my golf trip and the Scotch I had around here. But their girls started to nag almost before we got to my place, so the night ended rather early. We agreed to go out this coming Sunday for some golf, then come back to my place and finish what we started, hopefully they will have permission this time out.
Going further back, I took Lorraine out to dinner at Crush 29 on Thursday. It was just the two of us. We had a nice dinner, but it landed in my stomach a little wrong and I didn't feel well on Friday. The night was a little long, as most dinner's with Lorraine are. It was a 3 hour dinner, but Lorraine barely spoke. She doesn't have much to talk about, so it makes for a difficult conversation. She was not feeling her best, but was really excited to get out. I think she needs the outside stimulation because otherwise she won't get out of bed.
That's about it for tonight, I finished my 6.5mi run, so now I got to shower, finish dinner and try and get some sleep. Got a long day tomorrow. Need to get to Lowe's and get some paint so I can patch of the walls from where the dog has tried to eat through them.
Talk to you all later,